Wedding Reception

Picking the reception venue, menu and entertainment is probably the second most important part of your wedding day.

Planning the reception can be exceedingly stressful, so try and make firm arrangements at a very early stage. In fact, as soon as you have set a date for your wedding, start arrangements for the reception. Many traditional venues, are booked many months in advance.

Arrange a menu that will suit all tastes, including children and vegetarians.

A sit-down meal with waiters allows the guests to relax.
A buffet allows guests greater choice of their own menu.

Reception Speeches: General Advice

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Keep it under 10 minutes at most.

Keep it clean, as children may be present

Don't have more than a quick drink before your speech.

Try and fit in some humour, without being smutty.

Order of Speeches

The Toastmaster or Best Man, should silence the room, and introduce each of the speakers.

The Father of the Bride

The Groom

The Groom starts his speech with 'My wife and I...'
Goes on to thank the parents of the bride, his own parents and especially all relations who have traveled a good distance to the Wedding.

Thanks the attendants and all who have helped the Wedding preparations. Possibly giving a gift to show gratitude to the Chief Bridesmaid and Best Man. This is also a good time to present small gifts to the Bridesmaids, by calling them up to the top table and presenting them with their gifts.

The Best Man

Officially replies to the groom on behalf of the attendants. Then continues with any stories he may have of the groom, or the couple. It's a fine line to tread so err on the side of caution. The Best Man's speech traditionally lowers the tone a little with humour.

Finishes the speech by reading out any messages, telegrams, cards etc., Then makes a final toast to the happy couple.

After a short pause, he may introduce the entertainment timetable for the rest of the reception.